Denise B asked:


When it’s time to try those new talking dirty words out in bed, you’re probably going to be anxious. That’s okay! Anything worthwhile is usually nerve-wracking, but remember: You’ve paid attention. You’ve made a point of making more noise in bed. You’re saying little things that aren’t necessarily dirty, but that add to the thrill of the experience. What you are doing now is simply adding another dimension to an already great bedtime romp.

Start off slow, using phrases that titillate, but nothing too hard core. A good way to break into dirty talk is to describe what you want your lover to do to you – or to describe what you’re going to do to him. It isn’t a very long leap from a sultry “I’m going to go down on you” to something much raunchier.

As you say those dirty things, gauge your lover’s reaction. Does his body react as a result? Does it drive him so wild, he just has to have you? Does he talk dirty right back to you, encouraging you to do more? Those are all signs you’re on the right track!

Now that you know your lover is listening, start whispering even naughtier words into his eager ear. Start by ramping up your descriptions. If you said “That feels good” before, now you can tell him exactly what feels good. “I love it when you stroke me there” is a good thing to say, but how to get more creative with it? “I love it when you finger my breast” is a way of telling him exactly where you like to be touched.

See where we are going with this? You are starting with the easier phrases and moving into things that – rightfully so – can make you blush. If they make your partner blush, even better!

What can you think of that would make learning to talk dirty easier? This is the time you can bring in other things into bed with you. A bowl of fresh fruits would prompt you and your lover to talk about the “succulent” flavors and get more original with describing exactly what you plan to do with those delights! You can also reach for your ******** and use it simultaneously, all the while describing what it does to you – or better yet, ask your partner to watch you, and ask him to describe what he sees. The more detail, the better!

 



Jessie

Chris Roberts asked:


Do you want to learn how to talk dirty to your boyfriend? Pay close attention I’m going to share a few tips with you that will send him over the moon.

The first tip is the timing you don’t just blurt out some dirty talk at the wrong time. If you are driving down the highway in a snowstorm talking dirty to your boyfriend is more likely to get you injured or killed than produce an amazing sexual experience.

Whispering the naughty things you’d like to do to him when he’s in the middle of a poker game may get you out of there in a hurry but chances are if you messed up in the middle of his game you won’t be getting any attention or *** that evening!

Make sure your boyfriend is relaxed and in a playful or at best a good mood before you start talking dirty to him. If he’s had a bad day at work or is tired you’re wasting your time and may just make him mad. Give him time to unwind and talk about his bad day if he wants to, knowing that you are listening shows that you care. This may change his mood completely then talking dirty to your boyfriend may turn the whole evening around.

The second tip to talking dirty to your boyfriend is in the appropriate place such as the bedroom. You don’t want to get him all riled up early in the evening to only let him down once he arrive back at home. All too often this happen a few too many drinks, a pounding headache or any unexpected event can kill the mood instantly and all your talking dirty was a waste of time and energy.

In other words wait to set the mood with your dirty talk so you can follow through with it. There is teasing and then there is letting him down. You always want to be able to follow through with the dirty talk.

These simple tips will ensure you have amazing *** with your boyfriend and most importantly no one is disappointed.



Lonnie