Denise B asked:


When it’s time to try those new talking dirty words out in bed, you’re probably going to be anxious. That’s okay! Anything worthwhile is usually nerve-wracking, but remember: You’ve paid attention. You’ve made a point of making more noise in bed. You’re saying little things that aren’t necessarily dirty, but that add to the thrill of the experience. What you are doing now is simply adding another dimension to an already great bedtime romp.

Start off slow, using phrases that titillate, but nothing too hard core. A good way to break into dirty talk is to describe what you want your lover to do to you – or to describe what you’re going to do to him. It isn’t a very long leap from a sultry “I’m going to go down on you” to something much raunchier.

As you say those dirty things, gauge your lover’s reaction. Does his body react as a result? Does it drive him so wild, he just has to have you? Does he talk dirty right back to you, encouraging you to do more? Those are all signs you’re on the right track!

Now that you know your lover is listening, start whispering even naughtier words into his eager ear. Start by ramping up your descriptions. If you said “That feels good” before, now you can tell him exactly what feels good. “I love it when you stroke me there” is a good thing to say, but how to get more creative with it? “I love it when you finger my breast” is a way of telling him exactly where you like to be touched.

See where we are going with this? You are starting with the easier phrases and moving into things that – rightfully so – can make you blush. If they make your partner blush, even better!

What can you think of that would make learning to talk dirty easier? This is the time you can bring in other things into bed with you. A bowl of fresh fruits would prompt you and your lover to talk about the “succulent” flavors and get more original with describing exactly what you plan to do with those delights! You can also reach for your ******** and use it simultaneously, all the while describing what it does to you – or better yet, ask your partner to watch you, and ask him to describe what he sees. The more detail, the better!

 



Jessie

Chris Roberts asked:


You think you might benefit from a few lessons on how to talk dirty without talking. First you have to decide which method you want to use for your dirty talk. Do you want to talk dirty to your lover in photos or written words or perhaps both?

If you’re planning a romantic night full of passionate love making then you should start your dirty talk in the morning and carry it through the day and into the night.

A quick note left in his brief case or shirt pocket that reads “Guess what I have planned for you tonight?” is a great way to start. This will start his day thinking about you and the night that is to come, while teasing him and making him wonder just what it is you do have planned for the night.

A few hours later send him a text message or an email. Of course this depends on where he works and what the chances are that someone will see his private email or text message. If there is a chance someone will read it then choose your words very carefully. If you are certain it is for his eyes only then by all means let the words flow freely…

Another great but brave idea is to send him a picture of yourself if you’re shy pick out a **** lingerie and leave your head out of the picture or if you’re brave take it all off.  Strike a provocative pose and smile pretty! I don’t recommend this if he drives for a living or has a dangerous job because unless this is something you do often you’re going to shook the sugar out of him!

If it’s possible to meet him for lunch and the two of you can be alone then show up and join him for a quite lunch of foreplay. A little kissing, nibbling and perhaps even a little ******* will be just the lunch he was in the mood for.

As the evening approaches you can send him another email, text message or a picture. They say a picture is worth a thousand words so if you’re sending a second one make sure it is better than the first!

When he arrives home be sure the shower is ready and help him undress as you lead him to the bathroom, climb in with him and wash all the days’ worries away. Give him a little sample of what he has to look forward to but not too much! The longer you make him wait the more amazing the *** will be.

With all that being said my friends is how you can talk dirty to your lover without uttering a single word!



Christine

Chris Roberts asked:


Learn how to talk dirty to your boyfriend can really add some excitement to your *** life.  The fact is for most women they are not comfortable with talking dirty to their lovers but with the guidelines here it doesn’t have to be difficult at all. If you follow these simple guidelines you’ll be learning how to talk dirty in no time.

First and most importantly, it may help to realize that most couples talk dirty to each other not only during *** but as a method of foreplay as well. There is nothing like a conversation of what your boyfriend wants to do to you to set the mood for an awesome night of ***.

Secondly, don’t worry about saying the wrong thing. Just say what’s on your mind; if you want to rub his body down with chocolate syrup and lick it off. Use your common sense and good judgment, if your boyfriend can’t swim and is fearful of water don’t tell him you want to make love on the diving board.

If you feel uncomfortable with talking dirty then set guidelines of what is acceptable and what isn’t and respect each other feelings.  If you don’t mind being referred to using a certain word then say so. If you don’t set guidelines it will only cause someone to get upset and your romantic evening will abruptly come to a halt.

Learning to talk dirty is not something you should be embarrassed about.  If the experience is new to you then explain how you feel to your boyfriend. Most men love the opportunity to “teach” a woman how to talk dirty to them.

The words should sound natural and exciting to make him feel good and ****. If you’re not comfortable saying something to him then you do not have to force yourself to say it. It isn’t really any different than the act of *** if you’re not comfortable doing something don’t do it.

Try to have fun with it and learn as you go you don’t have to learn to talk dirty all in one night or during every sexual session.  I’m sure your boyfriend will appreciate your efforts and look forward to what you have to say the next time!



Tim

Chris Roberts asked:


Talking dirty is a sure way to make *** better especially if you start talking a few hours before bedtime. There is lot of things you can say to turn on your boyfriend or your lover. How dirty you decide to talk is up to you. You can start out with a little sweet talk and work your way in to some downright raunchy toe curling dirty talk if you choose to.

Everyone loves to be complimented about their looks as it will boost their ego and makes them feel good. When one feels good about themselves it shows in the way they walk and talk.

Start out with a nice compliment “You look great today!” “I love your shirt it makes your eyes sparkle.” You get the idea just a simple sweet compliment is all you need to get the ball rolling.

The second phase of talking dirty can include more descriptive and **** talk. Such as “I love your shirt but I’d love it even more if it was on the floor!” “You look so hot today I want to ravish your body.” You have used the same compliment and just added a suggestion to it. This is a very effective way to set the mood for a night of passion.

As the evening turns in to the night, spice up your compliments by talking a little dirtier. Make your compliments a bit more descriptive and add a few things you would like to do to your lover and keep him wanting more.

Climb into bed and spend a few minutes telling each other dirty stories, if you have a book of ****** stories you can take turns reading to each other. If not you make up your own story, start by each of you telling a little about “yourself” in the story once you have established your “character” you can move on the to setting and then on to the action!

Once you have your story you can act it out! This will spice up your *** life like you would not believe. Talking dirty always makes the *** better, the better talker you are the better the *** can be!



Rafael