Learn How to Talk Dirty Like the Pros
Denise B asked:
Learning how to talk dirty doesn’t have to be hard-core and nasty. You don’t need a mouth like a **** star to get a rise out of your man! You don’t even have to use words.
The next time you are in bed with your man, pay attention to how vocal you are. Let everything flow naturally, but make a note of what you’re doing. Do you Sigh or whisper? Are you at ease with saying certain things, such as a murmured “I love you” or his name?
Those signs and moans are a good way to get started with talking dirty. Practice becoming more vocal while you’re making love. Make noises that respond directly to what your lover is doing. If it feels good, tell him with a moan or a whimper. Start throwing in other words, too – but nothing dirty yet! Say your lover’s name. A simple phrase like “This feels good” is a great start.
As long as you are saying something while you’re in bed, you’re opening the door to say even more.
When you are ready to take the next step, don’t be amazed if you feel a bit lost. You might have heard all kinds of dirty talk, but when it comes to what works best for you and your partner, it can be hard to decide where to begin!
Start by looking at all those things where you know talking dirty will be featured. Buy a porno movie and watch it when you are alone at home. Make a note of what the women in that video say to turn men on. What words do they use most often? If you’re too shy to go the video route, try picking up an ****** book or magazine. There are all kinds of novels and stories that accommodate your ****** side, and most of them involve some down-and-dirty dialogue.
Study the words. Decide what feels best for you. Once you’ve found a few phrases that intrigue you, take those ideas to the next level. If you learn how to talk dirty and are comfortable with it, it will be the best thing to happen to your relationship.
Anna
Learning how to talk dirty doesn’t have to be hard-core and nasty. You don’t need a mouth like a **** star to get a rise out of your man! You don’t even have to use words.
The next time you are in bed with your man, pay attention to how vocal you are. Let everything flow naturally, but make a note of what you’re doing. Do you Sigh or whisper? Are you at ease with saying certain things, such as a murmured “I love you” or his name?
Those signs and moans are a good way to get started with talking dirty. Practice becoming more vocal while you’re making love. Make noises that respond directly to what your lover is doing. If it feels good, tell him with a moan or a whimper. Start throwing in other words, too – but nothing dirty yet! Say your lover’s name. A simple phrase like “This feels good” is a great start.
As long as you are saying something while you’re in bed, you’re opening the door to say even more.
When you are ready to take the next step, don’t be amazed if you feel a bit lost. You might have heard all kinds of dirty talk, but when it comes to what works best for you and your partner, it can be hard to decide where to begin!
Start by looking at all those things where you know talking dirty will be featured. Buy a porno movie and watch it when you are alone at home. Make a note of what the women in that video say to turn men on. What words do they use most often? If you’re too shy to go the video route, try picking up an ****** book or magazine. There are all kinds of novels and stories that accommodate your ****** side, and most of them involve some down-and-dirty dialogue.
Study the words. Decide what feels best for you. Once you’ve found a few phrases that intrigue you, take those ideas to the next level. If you learn how to talk dirty and are comfortable with it, it will be the best thing to happen to your relationship.
Anna
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