Peter Murphy asked:


You might be wondering if there are ways for you to learn how to make small talk. There are. It is important to learn how to make small talk because you never know when you might need to show that you know how - like when you have to attend a community function that requires striking up a pleasant conversation with a group of total strangers. You will definitely need to know how to make small talk then.

So what are these ways to learn how to make small talk? Here they are:

1. You must practice. Practice your small talk skills on people you encounter in your daily life such as the gasoline attendant who fills your car tank with

gasoline every week, or the bus driver who accepts your fare for the daily commute to the office. Practicing hones your small talk skills so that when you have to attend that important community function you will find small talk to be easier (if not second nature by then.)

2. Be a warehouse of information yourself. This entails reading a lot and watching many documentaries on tv. But information does not have to be encyclopedic or boring. Read and learn about things you are interested in but take time as well to learn about things you think other people would be interested in. Knowing a few good facts that other people can relate to is better for small talk purposes than having a head full of information that makes the eyes of other people glaze over.

3. Make it a point to join groups of people anywhere just to make small talk. Have you noticed that when many people are gathered together in one place, someone inevitably strikes up a conversation with another person there? Some people are quite shy though and leave it to other people to make the first move. That is okay, so long as you try to join in the conversation as well.

4. Keep a diary. This will serve as a repository of any information you feel is worth collecting. Anecdotes, important pieces of facts, names of people you need to remember - anything can go in that diary. The point is to read through the diary to bone up on these information that you feel are important to remember.

5. This step may sound silly but try talking to yourself in the mirror. This allows you to practice your small talk skills in private. You can then catch any bad habits that you have, like pursing your lips or licking your lips when you speak.

6. Be brave enough to try out new things. Try rollerblading, surfing, or visit a new shop that you may have heard about. Wear a different type of clothing or style your hair differently from what you are used to.

7. Learn to listen to what people around you are saying. Did your doctor just say he wants to go on vacation? Ask him when and where. Has your mother been telling you that she has back pains? Inquire whether they are getting worse. Did the cashier inform you that she is banking on being promoted soon? Congratulate her in advance. These are all opportunities to make small talk, because you cared enough to listen to what they were telling you.

8. Try to overcome any feelings of shyness or lack of self-confidence by participating in more opportunities to do small talk. There’s no getting around it - you learn how to make small talk by doing small talk whenever and wherever you can.

Practice definitely makes perfect.

All these tips are aimed at making you better at small talk. So take every opportunity to make small talk - you will become better at it over time.



Darrell

Chris Roberts asked:


Most women already talk dirty to their boyfriends without even realizing they are doing it. The simple words that come out of your mouth during *** are considered talking dirty. So there is very little to learn what you can learn is how to spice up your dirty talk.

The first and most important rule to learning how to talk dirty to your boyfriend is not over doing it. If you are normally a quite woman who only swears when you slam you hand in the car door then your boyfriend will probably be turned off by vulgar words coming out of your mouth. Keeping that in mind you don’t have to talk like a tramp to talk dirty to your boyfriend. Just be yourself after all that’s what attracted him to you in the first place.

If you have a dirty thought (who doesn’t) when you’re not with your boyfriend write it down and create a masterpiece out of it for the next time you and your boyfriend have ***.

Men are very good at talking dirty during sex, take a lesson and pay attention to what he is saying. Then create your own words based on his to talk dirty to him. This will accomplish two things the first and most obvious will be a huge turn on for him and second (which will come later) will be an ego boost for your boyfriend that is once he realized he taught you something!

Another form of dirty talk that women commonly use is the descriptive form. If he is doing something you enjoy but may enjoy it more if it was more to the right or left or a little slower by telling him that you are talking dirty to him.

The best type of talking dirty to your boyfriend is when you can describe to him in detail what you would like him to do, how you would like it done, and how wonderful it feels while he’s doing it.

Learning to talk dirty to your boyfriend is so easy chances are you have not even realized you’ve been doing it all along.



Edna

Chris Roberts asked:


Talking dirty is a sure way to make *** better especially if you start talking a few hours before bedtime. There is lot of things you can say to turn on your boyfriend or your lover. How dirty you decide to talk is up to you. You can start out with a little sweet talk and work your way in to some downright raunchy toe curling dirty talk if you choose to.

Everyone loves to be complimented about their looks as it will boost their ego and makes them feel good. When one feels good about themselves it shows in the way they walk and talk.

Start out with a nice compliment “You look great today!” “I love your shirt it makes your eyes sparkle.” You get the idea just a simple sweet compliment is all you need to get the ball rolling.

The second phase of talking dirty can include more descriptive and **** talk. Such as “I love your shirt but I’d love it even more if it was on the floor!” “You look so hot today I want to ravish your body.” You have used the same compliment and just added a suggestion to it. This is a very effective way to set the mood for a night of passion.

As the evening turns in to the night, spice up your compliments by talking a little dirtier. Make your compliments a bit more descriptive and add a few things you would like to do to your lover and keep him wanting more.

Climb into bed and spend a few minutes telling each other dirty stories, if you have a book of ****** stories you can take turns reading to each other. If not you make up your own story, start by each of you telling a little about “yourself” in the story once you have established your “character” you can move on the to setting and then on to the action!

Once you have your story you can act it out! This will spice up your *** life like you would not believe. Talking dirty always makes the *** better, the better talker you are the better the *** can be!



Rafael